Tuesday, May 22, 2007
The hands U're reaching for
Sometimes people cry and needs a hand that pass the tissue to wipe those tears. Sometimes people just wants to be alone because they need a hand to hold on to0. Sometimes people runaway because they want a hand to catch them. Sometimes people talks so0 much beacuse they want a hand to cover their mouth and tell them to shut up!
Whichever hands u're reaching for, it's a hand that you want to accompany you throughout your life. The hands may change but the stain stays. Memories living. Accepting the loss is all that you could do and moving on. It's undenialable that it's hard to reach for the hands that are already outstrecth to you. However, sometimes you just can't see those hands b'cuz you receive a po0r reception... hahaha....
You're not living in this world alone. Your family, friends and your pet loves you. If you can't see it, what is in your mind, in your heart that you're desire??!! It's not a matter of you're being useless or worthless just b'cuz you didn't do things right... It's a matter of how you deal with the most simplest thing in the world. How do u deal with yourself?
Dealing with yourself sometimes need a guide. Yes, u're the only one that's dealing with yourself but still you do need the superior to guide u through. Almost about 65% of humans I know, have the mentality of negativity. This means that, they listen more to the negative comments rather than the positive ones. However, eventhough negative comments do give a push to someone but majority to0k it as a downside of it which makes them feel worthless. These people will never listens to the positive ones even when that overwrites the negative comments.
It is not easy to change their mindset. They are stubborn and strong believe in what they know. That can be a very go0d value but unfortunately they used it to their disadvantage. Accepting comments and evaluating it, is a process of the outcome. How you evaluate would be determine the outcome. So0, how to evaluate? I'm not saying that this will work for all. However, to me it does. I'm just sharing a thought.
Evaluating a comment is like, how you put the pages all together to make a bo0k. First, what is the comment you received? "You're FAT!" Second, What does it potrays? Your lo0ks. Some people might take it hard. Then again, put urself in the mirror and asked yourself... and that would be the third... Do you like what you're lo0king? Does it affect you? In what ways? If it does, then you need to go on the second level- work out to change what poeple see. But if you're comfortable with who u are - be yourself and tell them that you're happy and why should i be sad? Basically, asked yourself. Ask why you received such comment and it's either you take in or not. If you have trouble, you asked someone for help. Someone that you trust their judgement. Someone that you know gives an honest comment. These people are your guide. If u're anti-social, then hit the bo0ks and televisions... Lo0k out for inspirational values that you know can help. Observing what's around you will help you alot. So0, don't bro0d or goes upset with ANY comment. If it condamns you like hell.. Pick yourself up! Remember you're not alone and there are people far worst than you... o0hky, obviously you would feel such pain at first... When tomorrow comes, everything would be yesterday and nothing is the same... Yesterday is history for you to learn tomorrow and days to come.
That's all i have to0 say... Peace
Yesterday is your history for you to learn and make a better today and the future....
? a life to0 precious to WASTE.
2:45 AM
I am 19 as of 2007. Born on 25 July (hari raya haji eve in 1988 at A timing). The third and the last child. Has a cat named BOB, treats him like a brother.
I love Music. Music is my Life.
Treasures friends, family and my Dreams. Daring I am, rebellious still. Passionate and determines my life, no one could steal it from me but HIM.
Blessed with what I have!! Obstacles after another, Patience I learn. Afraid not, I cannot FEAR!! So0 Many, So0 Little... Love me for ME, Hate me for ME. Know me for Real, Fakers are just not me