Wednesday, November 28, 2007
What makes it a deal?
Well, been awhile eh? Just for the record, alot of things been going on and some of it are quite complicated. Anywayz, let's get it off the ho0k and focus on the topic today...
What makes it a deal when someone comments about my being? It is because to change for the better and not making myself lo0k worser than a wendigo after 100 years of surviving in the wo0ds eating other humans flesh. When someone tells me about me, i get sources. Sometimes I tend to forget to whom i'm with. I mean, humans have emotions. Certain humans can take a certain amount of someone else's being while others are flexible about it. Knowing yourself with someone else is as important as knowing how many pain killers you take to ease the pain. At the same time, you know that other person's being and how dangerous normal drugs can be.
That's why it is a deal to me so that i know how much intake and outake i should make. I'm not bragging or making a big fuss out of a comment. I'm just analysing the facts. There's a saying that sounds something like this : You can't see what's in you through the mirror but through the eyes of others. What it meant is, you can't judge yourself to say that you are go0d or vice versa but others can. For example, a murderer says he's innocent but evidence from the detectives says otherwise. Knowing you also meant they see through the inner and outer side of you. With the things they see can actually determine the connection and relationship between you and that other person; be it your friends, colleagues even your own parents.
It is go0d to get comments be it negative or positive. Somehow it motivates your inner self and emotions. Also that depends on how you take a comment. It is normal and eventually high in percentage that humans take negative comments as disincentive or in other words, opposite of motivation which leads to corruptions and worsen the problem that sparks the fire. Therefore, welcomes the comments with definite delight (even if it's hurtful) and thanks the person who comments on you. In the back of house, search for facts (why, how, when, where, what..etc..), analyze and judge. At the end of the day, you know yourself better and through this process you will learn more about yourself. Re-create the negative comments and keep on going for the positive ones.
Make a comment a big deal in your list. Who knows you'll be the special person for that someone or everyone... (Anywayz, it's just my opinion..)
? a life to0 precious to WASTE.
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